Brand New Client 101
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How to Prepare for a First Date with Edie Lau

🔗Hygiene & Safety

Reschedule if you’re feeling sick!

Coughing, sore throat, fatigue symptoms = stay home

  • You will be taking a shower once we meet and I will have a towel ready for you.

  • Before you arrive, please make sure you have clipped your nails and cleaned the dirt from underneath your fingernails. Be thorough.

  • If you have a bush situation, that’s cool, just tidy it a bit for me if there’s a bit more going on and give it a good wash before you come and see me - then give it a final thorough wash when you arrive at my in-call.

  • Mouthwash, mints and dental flossing before our date is a great habit and one that I will be participating in too!

    Please don’t go overboard with colognes but a bit of aftershave and deodorant is welcome.
    Heavy perfumes are a pet hate of mine, so you can expect the same level of discretion from me.

💫Pleasure

Experience has taught me that pleasure arrives at different destinations for everyone. Chemistry, expectations and our preconceived ideas about intimacy can pull us away from understanding our desires.

Remember, our dates aren’t scripted, they are mutually crafted with patience and understanding.

I ask only that you keep an open, curious mind and to participate in the whole journey as opposed to focusing on an outcome.

The above paragraph is a longform way of saying ‘chill and trust the process.’
Addendum: I am not a pez dispenser of pleasure, nor a robot.

🔵Aftercare

Intimacy brings up different things for everyone.
I highly recommend booking for a longer period of time if you would like to sit with those feelings safely.

Adding an hour before our date or having a social date before or after we meet intimately, means we can build a mutual level of trust, understanding and companionship before progressing to the next level between the sheets.

Personally, I love anticipation :)

Adding an hour after our date means that we can get a meal together afterwards and soak in the afterglow of our activities or I can make tea, play nice songs and intertwine with you in the sunshine/candlelight.

If you do plan to do this, I highly recommend making restaurant reservations and/or just having a general plan of how you want our date to go. The keywords here are planning and coordination.

How nice is cuddling?

tldr: Don’t see me if you’re sick. Be hygienic.
Don’t rush yourself - or either of us - this is not a race.

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“Dreams, you know, are what you wake up from.”--
Raymond Carver